On February 22, 2019, Ekiti State University in Nigeria became a hub of advocacy and awareness as the Cray Initiative (Change and Resolute All Youth Initiative), a dynamic Non-Governmental Organization, hosted a powerful campaign against sexual harassment and rape. Led by its passionate Chairman, Mr. Olawale David Oyinlade, popularly known as GovCray, the organization brought together students, community members, and stakeholders to address the pressing issues of sexual assault and harassment, particularly in private night-time leisure venues. The event, under the banner of #CrayInitiative and #SayNoToRape, aimed to educate the public, challenge societal norms, and advocate for justice and empowerment across Africa.

A Bold Stand Against Sexual Violence

The Cray Initiative, renowned for its contributions to liberty, human rights, youth empowerment, environmental sustainability, and democratic values, took a firm stand against the pervasive issue of sexual violence. The campaign focused on raising awareness about the devastating effects of rape and sexual harassment, emphasizing the need for collective action to protect vulnerable individuals and foster a culture of respect and consent.

During the event, Mr. Olawale David Oyinlade delivered a compelling address that resonated deeply with attendees. He emphasized the sanctity of consensual relationships, stating, “Sex must be spontaneous and natural. It doesn’t require hardness; it must flow naturally, soft and tender. A man who forces you to sex does not deserve to live. MEN, let that NO means NO.” His words underscored the importance of respecting boundaries and rejecting any form of coercion or violence in intimate interactions.

Challenging Societal Norms

Oyinlade also tackled the harmful societal attitudes that perpetuate rape culture. He criticized the tendency to shame victims while excusing perpetrators, particularly men who exploit their perceived societal privilege. “And we keep on talking about the importance of telling it to our spoilt men, but the society feels they are men and shames the girl who was raped. Stop encouraging demonic men and their brutality. We don’t permit that our girls should be raped!” he declared. His remarks called for a paradigm shift, urging society to hold perpetrators accountable and support survivors without judgment.

A Heartbreaking Case of a Six-Year-Old Victim

To illustrate the gravity of sexual violence, Oyinlade referenced the harrowing case of a six-year-old girl who was raped. He passionately questioned the morality of such acts, saying, “Now there are no explanations for rape. The girl that was raped at six years old. Tell me, what was so attractive or sexy in the body of a six freaking years old girl?! What?! So damaging! I understand the reason for her being bipolar! So tender but was molested!” He highlighted the profound psychological and emotional trauma inflicted on young victims, noting that many perpetrators fail to grasp the lifelong impact of their actions because they cannot empathize with the victims’ experiences. “And some of these rapists won’t understand what I am talking about because they don’t have a vagina,” he added, emphasizing the need for empathy and accountability.

A Call to Action for Perpetrators and Society

Oyinlade’s message extended to those who derive pleasure from sexual violence, challenging them to confront the consequences of their actions. He posed a poignant hypothetical scenario: “This must sink in. You must understand that rape shouldn’t be. How about let me give you an illustration: Your wife gave birth to three wonderful girls, and on one fateful day, they were coming from a night vigil. They came across rapists; two escaped, and one was raped. You later caught the evil men—what will you do? Forgive?” This powerful imagery aimed to humanize the issue, forcing perpetrators and bystanders alike to consider the personal devastation caused by rape.

The Mission of Cray Initiative

The “Say No to Rape” campaign is part of Cray Initiative’s broader mission to expand the frontiers of liberty, human rights, and youth empowerment across Africa. By addressing issues like sexual harassment, the organization seeks to create safer environments, particularly in nightlife settings where vulnerabilities are often exploited. The campaign also aligns with Cray Initiative’s commitment to fostering happiness and dignity for all, challenging systemic inequalities, and promoting democratic values.

Through education, advocacy, and community engagement, Cray Initiative continues to empower young people and amplify marginalized voices. The event at Ekiti State University served as a rallying cry for collective action, encouraging attendees to reject rape culture, support survivors, and demand justice for victims of sexual violence.

A Lasting Impact

The February 22, 2019, event at Ekiti State University marked a significant moment in the fight against sexual harassment and rape in Nigeria. Under Olawale David Oyinlade’s leadership, Cray Initiative demonstrated its unwavering commitment to social change, leaving a lasting impression on attendees and inspiring ongoing efforts to combat sexual violence. The #SayNoToRape campaign continues to resonate, reminding society that consent is non-negotiable, and every individual deserves to live free from fear and violation.

For more information about Cray Initiative and its ongoing work, visit their official platforms or follow #CrayInitiative on social media. Together, we can build a future where respect, dignity, and justice prevail.